Dhuoda's Manual: Dhuoda was a woman of the ninth century who lived in
Uzes, in the
department of Gard in southwest France. She wrote a book called The
manual of Dhuoda which (mostly) has found it's way down through history
as a legacy of the period, which is a remarkable feat in itself. The
Manual includes details concerning Dhuoda and her family as well as her
advice on how a family should properly behave. Dhuoda was a woman of
learning, as she was aware of many of the political events of her day. She
recorded her marriage in 824 to Bernard, a godson of the Emperor Louis the
Pious, to whom she was loyal and devoted. Bernard was a soldier, and thus
absent from his family for long periods of time. Her shame and pride in
his accomplishments are evident in the Manual. Dhuoda bore two sons during
her marriage, William and Bernard. Because of her husbands absence, by the
time her first son was born, she had learned how to live alone. She loved
her sons with a maternal passion, and wrote the Manual for them
(especially for William who was sixteen years old at it's completion). She
began the book in 841 and finished it in 843 shortly before her death. She
explains her desire to write the book in it's introduction, "Many
children, I know, are happy with their parents in this world. But I, son
William, am far away from you, anxious and longing to aid you in need. So
I am sending you this little work, written by myself in a way which will
serve your young mind. It gives me joy to think that although I cannot
talk with you face to face, when you read these pages, you will know what
you ought to do.". She implores William to be true to his feudal lord,
Charles, and to honor his feudal oath. She also emphasizes the need for
her son to remember his duty to God and to the church. She asks that he
obey his father and to revere him in his prayers. The Manual gives
testimony to the importance of religion in the family and the patriarchal
basis of the family unit. The father, Bernard, was the most important
member of the family, and the children were encouraged and expected to
give him the utmost deference. Dhuoda never lived to see the death of her
husband a year after her own death, or the premature deaths of her two
sons, who ended the family line.--Mary Dragelevich
(summary based on Medieval Portraits from East and West by Eleanor
Duckett
1972.)