men who do not listen to you, ignore what you say, talk over you or pretend not to hear you. Such men generally have little respect for women and would be more likely to hear "no" as meaning "convince me." men who ignore your personal space boundaries. men who express anger or aggression towards women as individuals or in general. men who do what they think they want regardless of what you want. For example, if he makes all the decisions about what to do and where to go with out asking your opinion, then he may also be likely to make the decision about whether you are ready to have sex with him. men who try to make you feel guilty, or accuse you of being "uptight" if you resist his sexual overtures. men who act excessively jealous or possessive. men who have unrealistic ideas about women. men who drink heavily. A "mean drunk" can often get sexually aggressive, angry, or violent if he is rejected.